Playing nice cuckold

The rules of jealousy play

1 Don't tell your friends about it The involved may view your dynamic as an opportunity for them to explore their own fantasies. Keep your games removed from your everyday lives.

2 Watch porn for inspiration But never put your relationship under the strain of acting out cuckolding scenarios for real. Just get a sense of what themes work for the two of you.

3 Experiment with role play In turn, describe a scenario where the other partner sleeps with another person. Always use distant fantasy figures and never people you know.

4 The cuckolded calls the shots Not the cuckolder. Letting them set the boundaries ensures nobody gets hurt when any genuine insecurities are trampled on by mistake.

5 Never do it when arguing Only play when you’re on good terms with each other. And never reference any past infidelities. That’s not fun – it’s mental torture

Cherrys cuckolding tips

Instead of meeting him out, have him pick you up so he can be introduced to your husband being present. He’ll see for himself that your cuckold has accepted a submissive role with regard to your dating simply by standing there wide-eyed and silent while you melt into your boyfriend’s arms for a long, sensuous kiss. You should, of course, give your husband a kiss goodbye before you leave and immediately reinforce with your boyfriend how sexy it was to kiss him in front of your husband. Call your husband from your boyfriend’s place – just imagine what you could tell him. Dating is also still recommended, but sometimes you want to go out…and sometimes you just want to be fucked, don’t you? You will have already told your boyfriend that your husband isn’t allowed in the bedroom when he’s there unless you call for him. Combined with previous demonstrations of his obedience to your directions when your boyfriend is present, your boyfriend will feel much less anxious taking you to bed with your husband still in the house.

Once this threshold is passed, your boyfriend will be quite comfortable in his position and will begin to enjoy asserting himself with you and your husband and may well be the one to call your husband into the bedroom to witness him entering you. This is particularly true if your boyfriend knows that your husband’s access to you sexually has been limited in preference to him.

What she does

♠    Have hubby pick one of your sexy lingerie sets out for you before a night out with your girlfriends. Remark what a shame it would be if no other men were to enjoy the look of it on you that night. Ask him if he agrees, and whether or not he encourages you to flirt openly with other men while out.

♠    Keeping the house neat and tidy must become one of hubby’s daily tasks.

♠    Make him kneel in front of you regularly, to beg for something (to let him out his chastity cage, to give you oral sex, to massage your feet, to get any kind of sexual favours,…etc).

♠    Make him carry your handbag occasionally when in public.

♠    Insist that he sit down at all times when using the toilet.

♠    When eating out, choose his meals for him, and be the one to give the waiter the order. 

♠    Feminize his name, or come up with a cute ‘girly’ name to call him, and use it regularly.

♠    Give him a minimum of 10 strokes with a paddle or cane every month, and connect it to things in his behaviour the past month that could be improved upon. Start off immediately with solid strokes that are felt. Light strokes are not taken seriously, at all. Do not be afraid to end off with 3 or 4 extremely hard strokes. He needs to feel clear and unmistakable pain at your hands. Then sooth him by gently rubbing over his ass, while he repeats what parts of his behaviour he intends to better the following month.  

♠    For at least one week each month, whenever he cums, have him lick up his own cum…whether it be after masturbating by himself, cumming inside you, or on top of you…forbid the use of any towels or cleaning tissues… This will train him to remain submissive, even after he’s cum, reminding him that you call the shots, even after his orgasm, which goes against his natural male instincts. This must become a routine.

♠    Fuck his ass with a strapon while he masturbates. Order him to cum within ten minutes. Set a timer. If he fails, he doesn’t get to cum that evening. Whether he fails or succeeds, have him follow it up by giving you oral sex. 

♠    Keep hubby in chastity for at least two full weeks. Towards the end of the second week, make a point of walking around the house naked, or in sexy lingerie before you go out to work, or for a night out with your girlfriends, but deny hubby any sexual favours. Use this opportunity to receive oral sex, or a foot or back massage. To tease him, let hubby know he’s not permitted to fuck you, but if he’s got the nerve, he’s free to call up another man to come over to fuck you while he watches. 

♠    Another beginner idea is to set up a night with a girlfriend, which hubby is aware of, but from that point on, role-play that you’re going off on a date with a rich business man, who, after taking you out for dinner, will be taking you back to his hotel to fuck. While with your girlfriend, send regular role-play text messages letting hubby know how things are going “with the businessman”. (“Strong, handsome looking man…certainly looks like he knows what he wants…and tonight it’s me…”, “Just arrived at his hotel…he’s booking a room right now…so nervous, but also so turned on…hope you’re still sure about all this…” “He just fucked your wife”…etc)

♠    Tell one of you closer girlfriends about hubby’s sexual kinks and fantasies (cuckold/femdom/strapon/chastity cage, etc), then let hubby know you told her, and share her reaction in detail.

Cuckolding tips for females

This summary is not available. Please click here to view the post.

Cuckold Lifestyle

They traded pics together my wife and her boytoy. She sent this pic.

He then said nice ass let give you some D to put ass to ease. I sent her this pic.

She started to drool. And had to swallow her own spit. She can just imagine sucking on it.

She than sent a picture of her pussy and said come get this.

Rules for her to cuckold you

1. Make him wear your lingerie - DAILY. He should be in his women’s clothing most of the time while you’re at home, and definitely when he’s doing his chores or cooking dinner. Hubby’s not gay, but he loves feeling like the woman. This allows him to be free of the anxieties of being a provider and a man. In a way, he feels like the wife who gets her needs filled as long as she remains obedient.

2. Get a long, high quality silicone vibrator and a good water-based lube. A good sissy needs to be anally trained. Buy high quality so you can train him more often without hurting his cute behind. Safety first!

3. Go on amazon and find a sturdy riding crop so you can punish him when you find him getting in some unauthorized “personal time.” It’s his role to please YOU sexually, not himself. Masturbating without express permission needs to be harshly corrected, or else hubby might end up with a damaged penis from jerking too much. Remember, this is for his own good, in addition to being an important issue of femdom control.

4. Any time you think of it, remind your husband how tiny his cock is, how limp his arms are, and how little/fast he cums. Humiliation is the #1 thing a cuckold craves.

5. Make him masturbate while looking at pictures sent to you by potential bulls. In his mind, this will cement the half-formed notion that he just doesn’t have the “right stuff” to truly please you in bed. This exercise, I think, will soothe the eventual transition from being your lover to being “the guy in the corner who watches you get fucked by your lover.”

She came home tired from clubbing and cuckolding me

This how she came all tired from cuckolding me.